What it looks like in the places it actually lives
Rules are easy to agree with and hard to apply. This section is the applied version: what to change on Instagram this week, what a class flyer looks like, and how the site is ordered.
Instagram · the profile is one page, and it has one job
A woman who finds you does four things in about six seconds: she reads the top line, she looks at your face, she reads the bio, and she decides. Everything below is built for those six seconds. Get this right and every post you ever make works harder.
The bio, line by line
You already carry what you are looking for
Yoga · Sound Healing · The Seven Gates
MSc Psychology · Nepal
↓ Which gate is speaking? Free, 7 min
| Line | Its job | Why it is written this way |
|---|---|---|
| 1 · You already carry what you are looking for | Desire and curiosity | It is the only line everyone reads, so it cannot describe, it has to pull. It promises her something she already owns, which is unusual in a market where everyone promises to add something to her. Rewritten on 19 August: you said the four word version was too simple and gave two versions of your own, and this keeps your verb while saying what it is inside the same sentence. |
| 2 · Yoga · Sound Healing · The Seven Gates | Clarity and ownership | Two seconds to answer what is this. Two things she already understands, then the name of the method, so the new name arrives attached to something familiar. Without this line, line 1 is a nice sentence from a stranger. |
| 3 · MSc Psychology · Nepal | Authority, compressed | Two facts beat ten adjectives. A Master's tells her you are not improvising, Nepal tells her where the practice came from, and after line 2 nobody needs the words trained in to understand that. Shortened because the longer headline needed the room. Never write experienced, passionate, certified or dedicated. Anyone can type those, so they prove nothing. |
| 4 · ↓ Which gate is speaking? Free, 7 min | The action | The arrow points at the link button, which is where the eye goes next anyway. A question is a better call to action than a command. Free removes the price worry and 7 min removes the time worry, which are the only two reasons she would not click. |
Two alternatives, and one that must never be the bio
Yoga & sound healing for women coming home
The Seven Gates · 7 centres, 7 goddesses
MSc Psychology · Nepal
↓ Which gate is speaking? Free, 7 min
144 characters. Clarity ahead of curiosity. Use it if people follow you and then ask what you actually do.
You already carry what you are looking for
Yoga · Sound Healing · The Seven Gates
MSc Psychology · Nepal
↓ Next workshop: 14 Sept, 7 places
139 characters. Only line 4 ever changes. The first three lines stay for years, so people stop reading them and start recognising them.
You are not broken. You are disconnected.
It is the strongest hook we wrote, and it breaks your own rule: it tells a woman what her inner state is, which you cannot know. It is excellent as the first line of a post, where she can disagree and keep reading. In a bio she cannot answer back.
The rest of the profile
| Element | What to do |
|---|---|
| Handle | Rename the existing account to @elenadaenen. Do not open a new one, you would lose the followers you have. If it is taken, the order is now: @elena.daenen, then @elenadaenen_, then @elenadaenen.yoga. You asked about the underscore and you prefer it to .yoga, which is fair, and it moved up the list. Two things to know before you choose it. A trailing underscore is invisible when someone says your handle out loud, so a woman who hears it on a podcast will type @elenadaenen and land on whoever owns it. And it reads, quietly, as the name was already taken. A dot has the same first problem and not the second, which is why @elena.daenen stays ahead of it. If @elenadaenen itself is free, none of this matters, so check that first. |
| Name field | Elena Daenen · Yoga & Sound, 27 of 30 characters. This is the only field Instagram actually searches, so it holds the words a stranger would type, not the name of your method. Nobody searches for The Seven Gates yet. They search for yoga and for sound healing. |
| Pinned posts | Three, and they are the rest of your sales page: who you are (your face, your voice, the line about not being here to heal anyone), what a class is (real photos, price, what happens), the free test (what she gets and how long it takes). Repin them whenever they slip. |
| Profile picture | For the first month, your face, cropped close, warm light. Once people know you, switch to the purple circle with the small mark in it. Not the other way around, and never the full mark, which does not survive at avatar size. |
| Bio | The four lines from the Verbal Identity section, exactly as written. |
| Link | One link, to Which Gate Is Speaking, the free test that lives in the method. Not a link tree with eight options. One question, one answer. The page it lands on repeats the same sentence as line 4 of the bio, word for word, or she will think she clicked the wrong thing. |
| Highlight covers | Seven, one per gate, plus one called Start here in royal purple. What the small mark in linen means, since you asked: each cover is a plain square filled with that gate's colour, and on top of it sits the small mark drawn in linen #FBF8F3, which is the off white of your background. So gate 1 is a red square with an off white gate on it, gate 4 is a green square with an off white gate on it, and so on. Same mark, same size, same position on all eight. In Canva: square, background colour, upload mark-small.svg, recolour it to #FBF8F3, centre it at about half the width. No text on the cover, because at that size no text is readable anyway. |
| Grid rhythm | Alternate: a photo of you, a text or quote card, a practice frame. Three in a row of the same type makes the grid look like a template. This rule starts in month two. For the first thirty days, follow the calendar in the Content System and ignore this, because the order of that first month matters more than what the grid looks like. |
| Story style | Photo or video first, text second. Purple or linen text boxes only, never the coloured gradients Instagram offers by default. |
How a stranger finds you, on purpose
You asked whether you can reference yourself so people find you straight away, on Instagram, on YouTube and on your website. Yes, and it is mostly about putting the words people actually type into the handful of fields that are actually searched. Almost nothing else on a profile is searched at all.
| Where | The field that is searched | What to put in it |
|---|---|---|
| The handle and the name field. Nothing else. Not the bio, not your captions. | Handle @elenadaenen. Name field Elena Daenen · Yoga & Sound. This is why the name field carries yoga and sound rather than The Seven Gates: nobody is searching for your method yet, and everybody is searching for yoga. | |
| YouTube | Channel name, video title, and the first two lines of the description. | Channel Elena Daenen. Titles built as gate, what she will do, how long. In the first two lines of every description, write the plain words: yoga, sound healing, chakra, guided practice, Himalayan singing bowls, also known as Tibetan singing bowls. That last phrase matters, because Tibetan singing bowls is what people type into a search box even though Himalayan is the accurate word. |
| Your website | The page title in the browser tab, and the first heading on the page. | Title: Elena Daenen · Yoga and Sound Healing · The Seven Gates. Add your city and country in the footer and on the About page, in plain text, because that is how anyone searching for yoga in Belgium finds a person rather than a studio. |
| Google, for in person work | A free Google Business Profile. | Only once you actually teach at a fixed place and time. It is the single strongest thing for local searches, and it is worthless before there is something real to show at an address. |
elenadaenen on Instagram, on YouTube, in the domain, in the email. Search engines and people both work by repetition, and every variation splits you in two. This is also the practical reason the surname was worth deciding early, and why owning elenadaenen.com and .be already puts you ahead of most people at your stage.YouTube · the playlist is the product, not the single video
Gate name · what she will do · how long. For example: Root Gate · a grounding practice for when you cannot settle · 15 minutes. Never a title that only makes sense if you already know the method.
One photo, your face or your hands, the arch shape as a crop, three words maximum in Cormorant Garamond. No arrows, no circles, no shocked expression.
Say what she will do and how long it takes. Then start. No channel introduction, no subscribe request at the front, no music over your voice.
WhatsApp, your closest channel
- Voice notes over text whenever the answer is personal. Your voice is the thing people remember, and it is your unfair advantage in a market that communicates in captions.
- Under sixty seconds. If it needs more, it needs a call.
- Answer within a day, not within a minute. Availability at all hours is not warmth, it is a habit that will exhaust you by month three.
- Never a broadcast that reads like a newsletter. One thought, one invitation, sent as if to one person, because on WhatsApp it arrives as if to one person.
A class or workshop flyer, in one layout
Ninety minutes of yoga and Himalayan singing bowls, with one energy centre. No experience needed.
Thursday 18:30 · Studio name
20 euros · 12 places
The order never changes: mark, gate label, promise, plain description, gold rule, facts, one action, name. Everything else is decoration and can be removed without loss. Note that the flyer uses a reduced version of the mark with fewer sunburst rays, because at 34 pixels wide the full one starts to fill in.
The site, in the order she reads it
| Section | What is there | Her question at that moment |
|---|---|---|
| 1 · Hero | The headline, one line about the method, one button | What is this, and is it for me? |
| 2 · The test | Which Gate Is Speaking, and the invitation to take it | What would I get right now? |
| 3 · The seven gates | The spine, seven arches, one line each | What is the method actually? |
| 4 · You | The one paragraph bio, one photo looking at camera | Who is she, and can I trust her? |
| 5 · What you can join | Class, workshop, programme. Price visible. | What can I do next, and what does it cost? |
| 6 · The ethics | I am not here to heal you. I hold the space. | Is this going to be strange, or pushy? |
| 7 · Contact | WhatsApp first, email second | How do I reach her without committing? |